Unfathered Fathers

What began as a marriage built on hidden struggles led to addiction, heartbreak, and two divorces. When everything seemed beyond repair, God stepped in—breaking chains, restoring hearts, and rewriting a story that looked finished. Through surrender, loss, and undeniable miracles, this couple’s marriage was resurrected. Today, after 35 years together, their lives stand as proof that no one is too far gone and no story is beyond redemption.
👇About Unfathered Fathers👇
This podcast exists to equip men to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders they were created to be. It’s for those breaking the cycle—men who didn’t have strong role models growing up, but are ready to lead their families with purpose. Each episode confronts cultural lies about manhood, tackles issues like addiction, sin, and deep wounds, and points men to healing, truth, and the God-given strength to walk in real freedom.

What began as a marriage built on hidden struggles led to addiction, heartbreak, and two divorces. When everything seemed beyond repair, God stepped in—breaking chains, restoring hearts, and rewriting a story that looked finished. Through surrender, loss, and undeniable miracles, this couple’s marriage was resurrected. Today, after 35 years together, their lives stand as proof that no one is too far gone and no story is beyond redemption.
👇About Unfathered Fathers👇
This podcast exists to equip men to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders they were created to be. It’s for those breaking the cycle—men who didn’t have strong role models growing up, but are ready to lead their families with purpose. Each episode confronts cultural lies about manhood, tackles issues like addiction, sin, and deep wounds, and points men to healing, truth, and the God-given strength to walk in real freedom.

Roxanne’s story is a testament to God’s power to redeem even the darkest past. Growing up in a home shadowed by drugs and jail, Roxanne endured trauma that threatened to define her life. At 9, a devastating assault set her on a path of pain and addiction. Years later, she found herself in the same jail she once visited her mother—this moment became a turning point.
Through faith and the invitation of a family member, Roxanne met Jesus. Though life continued to bring struggles, pain, and setbacks, God’s transformative love guided her out of darkness. Today, Roxanne is a devoted wife, mother, and follower of Christ, living proof that God restores what was broken and gives hope beyond the hurt.
👇About Unfathered Fathers👇
This podcast exists to equip men to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders they were created to be. It’s for those breaking the cycle—men who didn’t have strong role models growing up, but are ready to lead their families with purpose. Each episode confronts cultural lies about manhood, tackles issues like addiction, sin, and deep wounds, and points men to healing, truth, and the God-given strength to walk in real freedom.
 

In this episode, we break down three spiritual roadblocks that can hinder fruitfulness in a believer’s life: A life without true repentance and lasting fruit, withholding what belongs to God through tithes and offerings, neglecting fasting and prayer.
This isn’t about earning God’s love—it’s about aligning your life with His ways. We’ll talk honestly about repentance that leads to real change, generosity that reflects trust, and fasting and prayer that sharpen spiritual sensitivity.
👇About Unfathered Fathers👇
This podcast exists to equip men to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders they were created to be. It’s for those breaking the cycle—men who didn’t have strong role models growing up, but are ready to lead their families with purpose. Each episode confronts cultural lies about manhood, tackles issues like addiction, sin, and deep wounds, and points men to healing, truth, and the God-given strength to walk in real freedom.

Jeff Allen’s life was unraveling — addiction, a family on the line, and a choice that would cost him everything familiar. At his wife’s urging, Jeff left a good job and entered Teen Challenge, a 14-month program that would change his life forever. But sobriety wasn’t the hardest test of faith. When his wife’s life hung in the balance, Jeff had to decide whether he truly trusted Jesus. This is a story of surrender, obedience, and faith when it costs the most.
👇About Unfathered Fathers👇
This podcast exists to equip men to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders they were created to be. It’s for those breaking the cycle—men who didn’t have strong role models growing up, but are ready to lead their families with purpose. Each episode confronts cultural lies about manhood, tackles issues like addiction, sin, and deep wounds, and points men to healing, truth, and the God-given strength to walk in real freedom.

Jeff Allen’s life was unraveling — addiction, a family on the line, and a choice that would cost him everything familiar. At his wife’s urging, Jeff left a good job and entered Teen Challenge, a 14-month program that would change his life forever. But sobriety wasn’t the hardest test of faith. When his wife’s life hung in the balance, Jeff had to decide whether he truly trusted Jesus. This is a story of surrender, obedience, and faith when it costs the most.
👇About Unfathered Fathers👇
This podcast exists to equip men to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders they were created to be. It’s for those breaking the cycle—men who didn’t have strong role models growing up, but are ready to lead their families with purpose. Each episode confronts cultural lies about manhood, tackles issues like addiction, sin, and deep wounds, and points men to healing, truth, and the God-given strength to walk in real freedom.

In this episode, Jody Harris shares her journey of wrestling with identity and worth after a painful and unstable childhood. Searching for something to hold onto, she chased success, numbed her hurt through addiction, and tried multiple times to rebuild her life.
Even while helping others through a thriving business, Jody struggled to face her own brokenness. Yet God patiently met her where she was and reshaped her identity into something real and lasting.
Her story is a reminder that no matter our past or the masks we wear, God is able to restore our worth and make us whole in Him.
 
👇About Unfathered Fathers👇
 
This podcast exists to equip men to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders they were created to be. It’s for those breaking the cycle—men who didn’t have strong role models growing up, but are ready to lead their families with purpose. Each episode confronts cultural lies about manhood, tackles issues like addiction, sin, and deep wounds, and points men to healing, truth, and the God-given strength to walk in real freedom.

In this episode, Peggy Dennis shares how God brought healing to her life after growing up in a home marked by trauma, including sexual trauma that deeply shaped her view of herself and her relationships. As a young adult, she carried that pain into choices she never truly wanted and patterns she struggled to break.
But God met her in the middle of it. Over time, He led her into real freedom, restored her identity, and is still doing a work in her life today.
Peggy’s story offers hope to anyone who has walked through painful experiences and wondered if healing is possible. Her journey reminds us that God can redeem even the deepest wounds and lead us into a new life with Him.
👇About Unfathered Fathers👇
This podcast exists to equip men to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders they were created to be. It’s for those breaking the cycle—men who didn’t have strong role models growing up, but are ready to lead their families with purpose. Each episode confronts cultural lies about manhood, tackles issues like addiction, sin, and deep wounds, and points men to healing, truth, and the God-given strength to walk in real freedom.

Colin Masterson had it all lined up — football offers, the identity of an athlete, the future he’d always dreamed about. But when he was caught with drugs, everything collapsed overnight. The parties, the drinking, the girls… none of it filled the emptiness that followed. What he thought was a family problem turned out to be a spiritual one. In the middle of the brokenness, Jesus met him. And the identity football gave him was nothing compared to the one Christ restored.
 
👇About Unfathered Fathers👇
 
This podcast exists to equip men to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders they were created to be. It’s for those breaking the cycle—men who didn’t have strong role models growing up, but are ready to lead their families with purpose. Each episode confronts cultural lies about manhood, tackles issues like addiction, sin, and deep wounds, and points men to healing, truth, and the God-given strength to walk in real freedom.

This week’s episode shares a powerful story of struggle, confession, and transformation. Our guests open up about their past with sleeping around and the hidden battle with pornography that followed them into marriage. Even after the truth came out, the fight continued—until they fully surrendered their lives to Jesus. Their testimony is raw, honest, and filled with hope for anyone facing similar battles. God really does redeem and restore.
 
👇About Unfathered Fathers👇
 
This podcast exists to equip men to become the husbands, fathers, and leaders they were created to be. It’s for those breaking the cycle—men who didn’t have strong role models growing up, but are ready to lead their families with purpose. Each episode confronts cultural lies about manhood, tackles issues like addiction, sin, and deep wounds, and points men to healing, truth, and the God-given strength to walk in real freedom.